UKULAHLEKA UTHANDO
Ndicwangcise ukuthanda uthando okukhethekileyo ukunceda kwiingxaki zobudlelwane. Uthando yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bethu obudala ubudlelwane phakathi kwamaqabane. Ndineentlobo ezahlukeneyo zothando kuzo zonke iimeko zobudlelwane.
Ngaba ikhona le nto eyenzekayo kuwe:
Kutheni amadoda okanye abafazi behlala bendiphepha?
.Kutheni ndihlala ndisilwa neqabane lam?
Kutheni iqabane lam likhohlisa kum?
Kutheni le nto ubudlelwane bam bungahlali?
.Kutheni umyeni okanye umfazi wam endiqhawula umtshato?
Kutheni abantu behlala bephazamisa ulwalamano lwam?
Iingxaki zothando kubudlelwane zigqithise kangangokuba zinokukhokelela kuqhawulo mtshato, Ukwahlukana kubudlelwane kwaye oku kuhlala kwenzeka ngelixa umntu eneemvakalelo ezizinzileyo zeqabane lakhe. Umama u-anna uyakuqinisekisa ukuba uyayifumana indoda n iya kwenza ispell esomeleleyo esingasekho ngaphezulu kweentsuku ezi-3 kulandela inkqubo efanelekileyo umthandi wakho angaphantsi ezandleni zakho. Umama u-anna unikezela ngakwicala lokhuseleko kubo bonke oomatshini abaphosayo ukuze kungabikho xhala lalo naluphi na uhlobo lokungakhathali kuba kunokubakho ikhulu ekhulwini lokuqinisekisa ngeziphumo.